My ex texted me good luck. Everuthing was good until my sister came for overnight.

My ex texted me good luck Sending your ex My ex contacted me after 5 months. Stung pretty bad though. I knew Facebook stalking or viewing her Instagram or snap would just make everything harder A year and a half after he dumped me, my ex finally sent the long awaited text. Unfortunately my ex used to not talk to me for months and then randomly send a "checking up I miss you I'm sorry I don't know what happened etc" message by email, I would give in and unblock him and we'd argue People can’t send a casual text and expect people they hurt to jump back right into their life. But he has asked me to grab dinner like 3 times over the 6 years and still texts on my birthday. family etc often so you’re not bottling anything in. Keep your head up and eyes open. The topic about groom ditching her bride to be brought back some memories of what happened last year when my Ex texted to check on me and I decided to try my luck by inviting her to my hotel room in another state from hers and she willing came over. Very immature, lies, and probably has trust issues. Is my answer good or it's a loser one? Both in our first relationship, but after 8 years together (since college) she gave me an ultimatum: you marry me or just leave me alone. I followed up with questions saying if he ended up replying. I’m good either way (if she texts me or she doesn’t) Reply reply Unique_kissess Good luck. She updated me about her life and I updated her about mine. We definitely didn’t have closure but you can’t get closure with those types of people. Here are 14 practical and emotional reasons why your ex could be texting you. I'm hanging in there, hope you are too. Written by Dr. But, still, can you even remember the last time someone other than your mother wished you luck on a test the night before? My former boss texted me asking where I was today after my last day being Friday . And my current ex never asks to get back together and also has never drunk texted lol. Or you guys had plans on Christmas before you My ex’s mom contacted me a couple weeks ago and I have really been wondering why she would contact me. So after he texted me, we started talking for 2 days and randomly out of no where he stops texting me. Alright. But the dumbass called me by my first name, and not my nickname. Karanastasis shows you exactly what you've If you ended on good terms, I would say “respectfully, I don’t want to do that” if y’all ended on bad terms, BLOCK THEM! I didn’t block my ex for months and he would text me at least 1-2 times a month and at first I thought it helped me move on but in reality it would set me a couple steps back in my healing journey every time I got a text and was reminded of what once was. Drunk texted my ex and he replied, please help :( We broke up a month ago, I was drinking last night and I fucked up, I messaged him. Obviously my mind is racing thinking what her motives are for this. You guys helped me understand my worth. If I still do how can I reply ? Good luck Fam. Open comment sort options In my opinion/experience, it has made me focus on things around me to appreciate:) I’ve been about 3 weeks without social media and it has completely helped me with the obsessive behavior to check and see what he’s up to and mentally I’m at a much better place. 1 / 15. Anyway sorry if my text bothered you. Good luck! Will my ex come back quiz. For Men: Get Her Back For Good. I disappeared for 9months, she reached out to say good luck as I was moving. I get a Gotta look at the light side; good luck OP Reply reply More replies. I'm happy for you. Be careful about getting back together too soon, though. Ugh. I got along very well with his dad and stepmom. What are the Top-5 negative dreams about your ex sending you a message? If you dreamed that you received a letter from your ex and cried, this means a My ex texted me 4 months after I left him (he was abusive). very frustrating & so time consuming you lose track of yourself I been in that situation many times before recently my ex texted me saying she wanted to call me I knew she got into a rebound relationship why would she want to call me for after a year later, Same thing here, texted me a few months after she broke up with me. What’s best for you mentally going forward. Reading a post for 5 years ago and then I see an update from last week. Good on you definitely getting your closure way before He wants to check in with each other. Add your thoughts and get the conversation going. r/BreakUps. Just go no contact don’t react to these in any way My narcissistic ex texted me out of nowhere and it sent me spiraling. We broke up a month ago and haven’t spoken about anything personal in a couple weeks. As you can imagine I was very emotional when I reached out to him to let him know. Quick context: I quit the job because they didn’t respect me, my time, or my full-time job as a student. he texted me this morning for the first time since we ended the relationship. Goodnight" Did I fuck up? Right now that hurt hasn't come rushing back as I expected it to and I think I handled it very cordially. She told me she started sleeping with a guy last time i saw her and it killed me. I have been doing pretty good in my life. after we broke up, i started purchasing these things for myself. Right and then they make u feel like everything is your fault one time he told me that I provoke him and everything I say is wrong and all I said was that I only want to see him for one day because I’m busy and then he went on this rampage and I stopped texting him but then he texted me again and told me that he missed me and didn’t mean what he said but he did it all over again I dumped my ex of 1. I say "Good Hey there, I previously shared that my bf broke up and was planning to settle to some other girl. I could tell his apology came from his heart because he struggled to get out the words. I have been there before, it’s a nightmare. The answer is that simple for a lot of people. He then had continued to reach out every 5 days, and it was making things extremely hard for me, so day after Christmas he texted me and we had a good convo that ultimately ended with me asking that he didn't reach out to me anymore. To me the apology doesn’t seem that genuine like the whole “I think you need an apology” I’m not sure what makes her think that. Then we sort of just ended it amicably by saying good luck and goodbye for now. I always think he will find a way to pop up like Glenn Close but so far, so good! It’s so 22F broke up with my ex last year. The first time, the text was just asking how I was doing and if I was ok after the breakup. Like, I know this is not about a relationship matter but I really don't want to talk to him as it builds my anxiety and doesn't make me feel good. My ex is the worst nice guy. Reply reply My (now ex) husband did that to me once. Your comment reminded me of a drunk late night call I got from my ex fiance a few years after breaking it off Ironically, I was on a solo last minute vacation to try to gain some clarity over the failing relationship I was in at the time with a good dude. Just something insignificant like "hey, how are you?" 5. We talked for a while Woke up this morning to a text with a lot of spelling mistakes (almost sure it was a drunk text) at 3am, saying that she's in the city and we should grab dinner and drinks tonight. I shopping and watching YouTube videos. no contact is deleting and removing them off everything. My ex and I just split up because I had family. my relationship with my family sucks and I have just me in life. But today out of nowhere my ex texted me. I am still doing good with the help of my family and friends. 2. Good luck with whatever decision you make, Reply reply Best of luck! It really sucks going through a break up Reply reply More replies More replies. My ex texted me just trying to make small talk and I just didn’t answer, should’ve done something like what you did Reply reply [deleted] • My Good luck with your healing. A part of me wants closure as to the “why” of things. And I think those late-night talks over texts are definitely one of the most intimate parts of any relationship. I had blocked him on everything, but he moved and got a new phone. Why would my ex-girlfriend text me happy birthday if we haven’t spoken in a while? A birthday message after a period of no contact might be her way of breaking the ice, driven by nostalgia or a desire to reconnect. As written in the title, my ex texted me more than a week after we broke up and went no contact. I had some big crys over the weekend and felt so much better. They’ve heard you’re single and so have decided to try their luck and see if you’ll agree to go for a drink. I (28F) texted my ex (29M) a couple days ago. It has been just over a year since we broke up. 5 years 2. My ex gf (33F) texted me (32M) after two years of silence. He texted me back "What" and when I didn't respond he texted "What" again. He said. Being already kind of fed up (we already hadn't talked for a few weeks), I just ignored her. He used to beat me up infront of others and outside school. I learned from my mistakes, and I ended up meeting the love of my life on Adult Friend Finder of all places. However, then theres the part of me where myself is telling me to tell her it was a mistake call, wish her luck, and move on. George Karanastasis, this best-selling relationship repair manual is known far and wide for one very important thing: lightning-fast results. Either way it’s actually simultaneously both a good sign you have a chance and an annoying type of text from your ex to deal with. I'm not gonna lie, I'm quite angry about this. hurt and broken hearted dont even begin describing my feelings. It’s just a way to help you detach and get space to heal. Leaving a job I put my 2 weeks notice in at my company on March 8th. Sheesh you already grilling me and sh*t. My ex texted me . Curtis03360:. I feel ashamed, alone, and depressed because of it. I moved on. on march 30th 2021 she reached out and I considered the email for a couple of days ( she had written she can’t get get me out of her head and wrote cute stuff about our cat etc ) I A month passed and I called him and he texted me he will call me back. An expert weighs in on the situations when texting an ex is a good idea (and when it isn't). Hey got an update : she sent a message this morning 3 days after i ignored the previous text ::: ‘ Totally understand you not responding. Honestly I think the apology just lacks sincerity if My ex texted me today. Oh god I could have written this! I went on one date with a guy who isn’t a good fit, but we have a ton in common. Try not to become fixated on this one. Doesn’t always mean they don’t care. My ex of over a year texted me too. But they’re really hoping that you’ll end up in bed together. Nah screw them they don’t deserve a response from us . My ex and I have been broken up for 3 months or so and I haven’t talked to her since then except for 1 time to let her know about something that happened to one of NC is not a law. Good luck Fam. And I felt nothing. (1 month no contact unfriended her on Facebook after breakup) Despite the way she left me after 5 years of being together, she remains very important to me and love her still. I wouldn’t think of it that way. Good luck! Good luck and keep us posted. So she broke it off after 3 years of being together. I then had a conversation with him last Monday where he berated me asking why I’m quitting etc. Its up to you, some people do it to manipulate, so proceed with caution. It's been 2 years since I've ended it all and here he comes today,saying he is sorry for how he treated me and that 'i know things between me and you wont go back to what they were' talk. MILD prank. I didn’t want to text him first because then it would feel like I’m putting more efforts. The concert is only in July. No explanation, just the link. She dumped me. e. No shit, not that shit anymore. My messages were mostly saying how can he flirt with other people that fast after our breakup, I said that it made me feel worthless, I said how bad it made me feel. It fucked me up a lot. I have an old ex who has never drunk texted me in the like 6 years we’ve been broken up. The issue is, she has texted me twice during this period. This is important because if you’re not in a good place, you’re probably going to project some of your issues and insecurities to your ex. My ex texted me yesterday afternoon to let me know he is temporarily moving to LA and asked me to wish him luck on his next adventure. Anyway so we started talking and somewhere along he says he wants to hug Same thing happened to me 3 months ago. I don't have hard feelings for my second ex of 5months maybe because of guilt. We just had a mutual incompatibility. for example, i would buy my ex food, face masks, self care products, etc. For example, my ex texted, this was a last year after he dumped me, “are you up?” I was up. goodnight (her nickname for me). I feel like I finally can move on now because of this as I now know that I am not the one at fault Two days ago my ex's new girlfriend (21-22, i guess for her instagram) texted me. Our relationship didn't last very long, only a month, but it was positive in general. (5y together). But whatever you do, good luck. Was I happy, of course but things took a different turn. We hadn’t talked since the breakup. i texted her a few times but would take a while to get back to her and didn't respond well to her being mad at me (it kept backing off and not showing her i was so positive i want her back . My ex never used my first name during the entire However I can’t stop checking my phone to see if he texted and entering apps we used to talk on to see if he is online. Let me tell you my experience as the one who got the text. So I totally get it. But I don’t think he loved me as much as I did him. People tend to be the most loneliest at those hours. Long story short: Great relationship, she started cheating on me. I blocked them. My ex-girlfriend texted me similar things, I texted back "sometimes," I hate to admit it, but I know that I wanted her to lead the conversation to us hooking up. My ex never used my first name during the entire relationship. Good luck to you. Sometimes a woman is just a nice, well-mannered person and it’s in her nature to want to end things on a After a breakup, texting an ex can be confusing. Today, he texts me asking about the concert tickets he had bought for us awhile ago and I still want them, he's trying to have a conversation with me about how we should do it with me paying him back etc. I am happy with him. She’s all in her own head and will bring you nothing but anxiety and confusion. My ex contacted me to “catch up” after 10 years and being currently in a relationship. Good luck with whatever decision you make, Reply reply My ex is a sado-masochist with very bad anger issues who cheated on me countless of times. I then called my boss to resign and then emailed him my resignation letter and then emailed it to HR with him on the thread. :: “You are one of the good ones and I am sure that you will manage to get what you are looking for. Leaving this sub, good luck everyone! Is it a good sign if your ex responds to your texts? When you reach out to your ex and your ex responds, the sad reality is that you aren't any closer to getting back with your ex than you were before the reach-out. I still love him and I’m scared to see him because I want him back. So far, two out of three ex-partners had come back to me! My first ex-partner came back around maybe two months after we broke up and she was very sweet, sending me a text to check up on me. BROTHER my ex sent me similar Korean messages like that when things got rocky between us. I knew it was coming since we talked about updating each other on major events. So update, he hasn’t texted me for 6 hours and I was worrried because this is highly unusual on his day off from work. At this point I'm irritated, because B's ex is texting me at 22:30 at night and accusing me of things I'm innocent of. The reason? He wants to be alone. getting my nails and hair done etc pampering yourself basically. My ex texted me "I don't give a fuck even if you die" I've had similar things happen to me before but I'd always think it's me who is bad and she is so good that she talks to me even when I'm depressed. 3 weeks after I told her not to talk to me again, she texted asking if she could call and ask me about a song. 2 / 15. Good luck 🤞🏼 Reply reply Your ex is more direct than me xD and boss. Help me - I’m lost. so blocking him doesn't feel right in my heart even though I know that no contact has been so much healthier for me :( I'm so sorry you're going through this. We don't even listen to the same type of music and for 4 years never did she ask me about a song. I didn't want to entirely shut this down cuz, but I didn't want to straight up ask her to hook up. Biscous Posted January 7, 2014. My suggestion is to either block him or create a very clear boundary with Caught my ex cheating through online and he was an asshole to ME after I was angry at him and just recently he sent me a message trying to act like we’re friends. Dont reply. 5 months ago after a fight. When he caught on that I didn't respond, he texted me "Happy Thanksgiving" again but this time with a turkey emoji. I know you have a test tomorrow morning, good luck! Analysis: Grammatically correct and includes words longer than five letters, so Ex is clearly not completely inebriated. I feel good about what I did, and in my own sick way, I feel like I have closure. There’s no way your ex just doesn As written in the title, my ex texted me more than a week after we broke up and went no contact. I know I shouldn't feel bad if I'm fine at the time but knowing she's sad always hurts me. It’s good news because it means that your ex is still thinking about you and feeling In the meantime, take this relationship as a good learning experience. Ugh ugh ugh! I have no hard feelings for my first ex. But because he was bored and lonely, mainly lonely, he decided Hey everyone. It wasn't a big deal and I just wanted to do this because we've been friends for so long it seemed very natural. Experts break down the four situations it's acceptable to reach out to your former flame. Here for you if you want any help with this and best of luck ex texted "You’re a slut" - a conflict with an aggressive person; receiving "That’s it" from your ex - good luck. She sent me a few more texts, asking what she did wrong (she claimed I was giving her "hate looks" throughout the week Yesterday, my ex randomly sent me a link to a project she created with the person she cheated on me with. Good luck! This conversation was 2 days ago. SHOULD I TEXT MY EX GOOD LUCK . You want them to initiate the contact because it will be their heart that has changed If they really want you back, then you have to listen out for the apology. ” My boyfriend was love with this person before. She is just being polite as she says goodbye. I am in a wonderful relationship with the perfect man who I love so much, but I still got so upset when I saw the message from my ex. ) 1. When we broke up there wasn't a fight. Good luck! Reply reply Many_Cupcake4541 I drunk texted my ex last night woke up and saw the texts and she saw them and I'm sitting not sure If I should explain them to her or just bury them and act like it never happened . buying things you would buy for others for yourself. Saying the same thing. It’s only been 2,5 weeks by then but I miss him. There will be many more opportunities for you out there who are deserving of you. My ex’s spouse texted me nasty things pretending to be my ex. You need to think about what is best for you. So yesterday my ex contacted me for the first time in 2 years after he ended things. If your ex contacts you but doesn't show interest in getting back together, it is called breadcrumbing or breadcrumbs. I accepted the whole picture, the good and the bad, and knowing that timing plays a huge role. She will eventually talk to you about it. He ignored me. We texted a bit two days after that, I send him a funny meme and he asked about my day. It was a mutual agreement and went smoothly (as smoothly as breakups can go). You never know how life will turn out. i’m thankful for all the times life/god/the universe said no to certain people/situations/plans. you gotta show up for yourself before you show Well my ex just texted me that. She honestly betrayed me and I don’t even want her back but all I did by texting her was boost her ego and make her feel like she has me as a backup. Plus, find out how long you should wait to text your ex and what to say if your ex texts back. it has lead me to believe that things don’t happen for a good reason. Told me that she would never do anything to harm our relationship as she loves me dearly and apologized for not being good enough and disappointing me. ” I began to distance myself, but he is persistent and will Take care of yourself and allow yourself to move on and grow! Good luck! Reply yourhonoriobject95 My ex just texted me simply saying "thinking of you. This is still not a good reason to force things that don't happen naturally or hold on to someone that is not for you. waking up and pampering myself as the day go by. No contact is not an option for us because we are finishing a professional project together. i wouldn't say we ended on "good terms" bc there were still a lot of problems we hadn't addressed. We spent our early 20s pretty much together but when she graduated she was dealing with post grad things and a sense of missing out on a lot since we dated most of our college My ex texted me last night saying “I think I’m finally realizing how much you meant to me, I’ve been thinking about you a lot and it’s been making me really sad” Good luck!! ️ Reply reply More posts you may like r/BreakUps. He’s also ENM. Insider Insights From Chris Seiter: FAQs on “Why Did My Ex Girlfriend Text Me Happy Birthday?” 1. My ex and I have been broken up for 3 months or so and I haven’t talked to her since then except for 1 time to let her know about something that happened to one of She then told me she missed me but wasn’t trying to convince me to get back together. Find out if Will My Ex Come Back? Quiz. My ex of 5 years broke up with me pretty much out of the blue. I will tell you this. I blocked him everywhere I could think of. It is important that you respond this way when your ex boyfriend good wishes to my ex wife:: “Best wishes for you in anything you might undertake! You are an amazing person, and I am glad to be able to still be a part of your life”. Trust me,if your ex wants you back nothing will stop them from getting in touch with you. Only you know the answer. I slowly moved on. That’s how I dealt with it. Of course, I did and continued the convo which led to receiving no response from him. She sent me 2 minutes long voice texts the same night explaining to me what she did as she said she felt guilty, apologizing in tears. He didn’t say a word to me. Your break up sounds a lot like mine but I don't think I'll be getting that text. Good luck! Reply reply [deleted] • You can reply and be nice and say merry Xmas back An expert weighs in on the situations when texting an ex is a good idea (and when it isn't). He didn't show up to school today (we are both in hs) and tomorrow we both have auditions, should I text him good luck for it? I care about him and want to text him out of good intentions but I'm not sure how he would receive When I deleted the texts of my ex-partner of 12 years, it was SO hard. Sometimes it's for the best. i messed up so bad. Said nothing bad but made me feel like shit cuz she seemed sad about it. If your ex texts you during no contact this is what you should say to them in order to preserve your power and keep them missing you. And this is ideally what you want. He texted me for my birthday saying something along the lines of “you’re always in my heart no matter where I am or where Recently my ex wanted to “take a step back” in our relationship and be “close friends. 5 months ago. I didn't look for her to tell her anything, because I had no idea she existed. I didn't respond and tried to move on but then she texted me again and a lot more. What to do if your ex contacts you during no contact. Members Online. This was rough hearing this. He eventually asked me "Who texted who first". You accidentally texted your ex it was a mutual break up. A couple of weeks ago, I sent him a text by accident which was just a dot. But it wasn't for what you might have thought. And then he said “yeah I wanted to see what was needed to be said. Didn’t even miss my ex wife as bad as I miss my ex girlfriend. My ex cheated on me with her friend and i told her before to stay away from him because I don't like him and i Know he's a player but she posted a photo hugging him and sitting on his lap and she posted a photo kissing him in her close friends account so we broke up , it's been 2 years but I can't forget her or get over her , she texted me again last week and yesterday saying she Me and my ex of 10 months ended things yesterday, it was bittersweet but mutually agreed on for the best. If it’s really meant to be then it will be brother. I just don’t understand how things fell apart. Now in between the 6months first 3months i did call him 3 times it was just so hard for me at that time. ” The last time I texted and called him and wrote him a letter, he completely ignored me. Maybe you and him had the best Christmas seasons before and he missed it. 5 months ago texted me and started talking casually. You deserve it and good luck at your new place :) It reached the point of him using random people's numbers to call me because he couldn't reach me and that's when I started to block each unknown number assuming it was him. I tried to keep it casual but she misunderstood (like always) one of my text and started bashing me In this new guide we are going to be taking some of the most common things an ex will say during or after a breakup and dissecting them Instead, out of nowhere, he sends some semi bitter mixed message saying "good luck with your life. His family lives here and he can see them whenever he wants. Dr. Reply reply Ex called me after 2 months of ghosting and no contact My ex’s mom contacted me a couple weeks ago and I have really been wondering why she would contact me. Please keep us in the loop and good luck! Reply reply ss203 • My ex contacted me after a year of NC and it did mess with me emotionally briefly. 2K votes, 65 comments. And btw, good luck!! So my ex of over a year texted me today after I told her to not text me unless she is serious about working things. She is quite the wonderful person, but broke my heart. Reply reply [deleted] • I think it's obvious that you're overthinking every single detail. So my ex of over a year texted me today after I told her to not text me unless she is serious about working things. 1. “Why are you ignoring me?” “Why are you acting so weird lately?” “So do you not want to talk to me anymore or what?” OK, text number one is what I call the “validation-seeking trap” text message basic My ex (dated 4 years) and broke up 1. It's still hard for me to let go however. But he sounds kind of immature, When my ex broke up with me I blocked her on everything right away. I have been trying to hangout with friends more, picking up shifts to My former boss texted me asking where I was today after my last day being Friday . 2 days kater after acting normal he told me what he had seen and when I tried to explain he told me he couldn’t trust me anymore, that i was vile My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. And it’s just so weird to me that this is happening right now. Your Ex Just Being Polite When he texts you Merry Christmas, he might be feeling nostalgia seasons about the good times with you. I have my own place and he has his. He texted and asked for me to meet him in person. visiting from out of province. " Yeah I mean maybe he does want to get back with you. Whenever he texted me, I made sure to do something that would distract me – whether that was going for a run, reading a book or hanging out with friends. They Want To Check Up On You. Good luck and have fun!! Reply reply [deleted] • You are probably going to be baited to buy her insurance So, when the ex friend/bandmate texted me, I had a different attitude about the whole situation. I get a text today while on the first day of my new job from my ex boss asking me if I’m coming in today or if Friday was my last day. My ex was paranoid when I came home crying and went through my phone. He then says "Never mind, good luck with her. He still texted me a ton, and I just slowed my response to an occasional trickle. Ha. So you do what feels right to you. My ex husband really played me and convinced me to do everything amicable and rushed, I surprisingly haven’t cried about it since he texted 2 days ago. Look i got dumped by my ex 2. than i messed up again trying to get her back. Somebody who treats me way better than my ex ever did. He said he missed me and wanted to be friends and didn't want to get back together but he was upset that things ended on a bad way. She noticed that my secondary account, inactive for about three years, was still following my ex, and she started writing me nasty words that I won't repeat. hey thanks for your response. Things have been going very good for a while now. It is incredibly difficult to get rid of the intimate parts of somebody so important to your life. Everuthing was good until my sister came for overnight. I wasn’t lonely, I wasn’t bored, my time was occupied. I told him it was an accident and I'm sorry. My ex texted me today and I want to give him a taste of his own medicine. sxphia14 • this isn't no contact. very frustrating & so time consuming you lose track of yourself I been in that situation many times before recently my ex texted me saying she wanted to call me I knew she got into a rebound relationship why would she want to call me for after a year later, telling me she had My ex’s spouse texted me nasty things pretending to be my ex. So I said I can’t do the halfway thing, she chose to not have me in her life so I don’t want to be in it. Good luck hang in there and stay strong Reply reply When we got back home, my ex texted me, yelling at me for stupid things, essentially being jealous of the other girl. The intrusive thoughts have been torturing me all week. Ex wrote me ''Merry Christmas!'' after having blindsighted me and starting something new with a 6-8 year old ex of her. but i couldn't read the message from my notifs bc it was too long, so i My ex just texted me simply saying "thinking of you. We hadn’t been talking much (which I get it) due to work but today we usually chill and talk. He actually wants to go out and do fun things with me rather than just sit home and play video games. You can be kind and think about the other person and still get your point across for what’s best for you. The way he ended it was extremely hurtful to me (basically ignoring me for days, then just said bye and good luck) after I was attempting to talk about something that was bothering me, a potentially uncomfortable conversation. Good luck my friend stay strong dont My ex who dumped me ended up texting me after three months no contact to ask how I was doing and we basically hit it off again. He did text me and let me know he's working on himself and I said I was happy and proud of him. But it might just be my type 2 self. Reply Bunnyaimee Best of luck. I was getting 3 hours of sleep per night because I was working from 7:00pm to 11:45pm without a break (they always kept me 45 minutes after my shift to clean up and we weren’t allowed a break unless we worked a 5 hour shift) and then I had 3-4 hours of homework. You sound insecure. There’s no doubt you had mind-blowing sex with your ex, but that was all there was to the relationship. The type to swear he will always respect your boundaries and claims to be a feminist but then will throw a tantrum if you wont blow him. good luck to you, My DA gf dumped me in early December 2020, I held out for two weeks and contacted her again but she refused to consider reconciliation so I did the ‘no contact’ and worked on myself etc. Good luck and I’m really sorry this happened to you!!! ️ Reply reply Maybe you’re wondering, “Is my ex-girlfriend testing me or ex-boyfriend?” If so, the following reasons will help you better understand your ex’s behavior: Your ex is trying to get back with you. the fact that you both still have each other on social media is a form of contact. Check them out! 1. Closure is such a good thing, it may bring closure for you both. More posts you may like For me personally I’d either respond by just saying “thank you” or I wouldn’t respond whatsoever. Share Sort by: Best. Reply reply Justforlaughs27 Start the quiz once you’re ready to have a clearer idea of if you will get your ex back. I also would recommend keeping busy. She broke up with me, I was immature, really immature and she loved me. Hey! So my ex and I broke up about two months ago, all right now. I reply to his last question with, "Look man what's with all the questions". Outside the bedroom, you weren’t compatible at all. Texted her last night with no response. I have been in no contact for around a week. Ongoing support for break ups. Biscous. I just told my sister to text him to leave me alone and he hasn’t texted me again it feels amazing. He replied "OK. No. 1 Link to post Share on other sites. Advice appreciated . My ex blade me commit to never cutting off contact when things go bad which I did of course. It hurts as hell but life goes on. Reply reply More replies More replies. I acted enthusiastic and calm like Im gonna see my ex in two days to get my cat. this guy has definitely evolved and tried coming back a few times after this, but it was Are you confused about what your ex's text messages really mean? 5 types of texts from your ex decoded (and what to do). Your ex could be texting you to check up on you, especially if you were together for many Here are 5 common reasons why a woman will wish her ex the best for the future: 1. Just go no contact don’t react to these in any way My ex texted me (we broke up 3 weeks/ a month ago) today she texted me but deleted the message around 20 minutes later. I almost ended up back with my ex actually, but I'm so glad I didn't. It was short and I was happy we could both be honest. It was an amicable break up. so, 2 days ago was my exam and my ex texted me good luck, tomorrow is her exam, should I text good luck too? Share Add a Comment. April 5, 2019 at 5:13 am #745114 Reply. Ex of over 2 years texted me this recently, never responded and feels good to have moved on What a rough year 2020 was but I’m definitely glad I outgrew that period in my life. Another "texted my ex with no response" post . Did your ex ever try to reach you through text or other ways? Yes. He was preparing for this huge test and I just wanted to be supportive so I dropped him a quick text telling him good luck. When you realize, "My ex drunk texted me," it's tempting to panic, but according to experts, here's what drunk texts from an ex really mean. Your ex gave you a trailer/preview of what's possible out there. My boyfriend told me he replied to see what the ex wanted. Without thinking I sent back "Been thinking about you as well. My ex texted me (we broke up 3 weeks/ a month ago) today she texted me but deleted the message around 20 minutes later. Out of nowhere she texted me. I know I’ll look back in 5 years too missing her still, and I don’t want that. After his last immaturity blow up, I had to put my foot down to move on. Breadcrumbed for all of them hell i saw her last week to finalize somethings. Cheers ". I also onboarded my best pals who made sure to remind me how awful the relationship had been, how much more I was worth, and why I should not respond. We were together 6 years and we broke up in February. i gave her space thinking thats what she needed. My ex-wife contacted me out of the blue to tell me the man she cheated with and left me for mistreats her. I Need Advice 😩 I'm 17(F) and my ex bf is almost 17 . My ex gf texted me out of the blue today after nearly 3 months no contact. It's so hard for me to get over the relationship, not her, but the 3 years that were wonderful, i was really in dream. Reply reply Dam. we dated for 7 months and it was soo good at first. Claire, I hope you can move forward and hopefully forget they even existed one day best of luck to you and your best life ️. You can still text me". 5 days later he texted me to check in, saying his dad is home from hospital and hope I am My (26M) gf (28F) texted me from a fake number pretending to be someone else . Be the first to comment Nobody's responded to this post yet. Since I saw her with him and wasn't curious about more lies, I wished her good luck with him and ended it. 125 votes, 169 comments. Why Did My Ex Text Me And Then Not Reply? Your ex likely texted you but didn’t reply because they’re seeking attention, reassurance, or testing the waters without any real intention of reconnecting deeply. My ex, after I told her not to contact me wished me a happy thanksgiving and a merry Christmas. Quick back story. I would simply say thank you. This is the most common reason he or she checks up on you. Last night I was drinking and emotional and texted her like a fucking idiot. Instead of overanalyzing their behavior, focus on your own life. Well sure enough, when she perceived something that was not accurate I was ghosted. This was before I learned about But last night after 8 months since breakup my ex texted me how im doing etc. My ex texted me asking: “do you still want to talk. Very direct question which I do not have much to work with. He still seemed really angry, he even texted me “good luck with that & the flipping me off emoj”. Eventually started dating somebody new. Do I owe it to him to have the conversation with him? Still, sending some good-luck charm to my awesome man. Established Member; Established Members; 497 posts; Share; Posted January 7, 2014. When we broke up and the first month or so afterwards I so desperately wanted to talk to him. bookjunkie315 • My ex had a pattern of doing this. New comments cannot be posted. My ex texted me about concert tickets. Around two weeks later, he texted me asking me how I was and what I did on valentines. A part of me is saying go for it, a part of me is saying no, and a part of me is saying just respond with 'idk how to respond to that" because it seems like you don't and it seems like a good, honest, open ended answer. This post is 4 years old. but bro had some issues and he hurt me soo many times but i kept giving him chances and got back with him multiple times we recently ended things he said i was too emotional and too much for him to deal 20 votes, 16 comments. Anyway so we started talking and somewhere along he says he wants to hug me. Do whatever you feel is I ended up not replying and a week later (yesterday) received a text. Best of luck my friend! So my ex left me about 2 weeks ago for another guy. He's funny. i didn't want to reply bc i've completely moved on with my life and have felt so much happier without him. I told him straight I was cool with being buds, and I’d really like that, but I’m not into him like that. I feel like I’m hoping for something that won’t happen, and I don’t know how to face him and not wanting to hold him. She sent I’m sorry messages In Korean and dumped me about 1 week later. I didn't want to respond because even though things ended on okay terms, he made it clear that he became emotionally unavailable. That’s really all there is to say since all he said was good luck. Jealousy over my career, family, my successes. Good luck and a hug. #17 You’re the coolest cat wherever you go, you can trust me on that and believe it is true! Good luck to my coolest boyfriend today! You’ve got this! #18 Here are some good-luck He wished me good luck for my exam. . In retrospect I see her actions ,(i. What might this mean? Should I text her even though she deleted it? Locked post. Reply reply exce1s1or Had a girl dump me bc i was too good for her its been over a year should i text her. self centered thinking, emotional immaturity) are consistent with her ghosting me and it was me who made excuses for her actions. Are You in A Good Place in Your Life Right Now? If you’re in a bad place mentally and emotionally, it’s not a good idea to contact your ex. My ex broke up with me about a week ago & 4 days into the breakup I found out I was pregnant. 22F broke up with my ex last year. There are some possible reasons why did my ex text me on Christmas, they are: 1. How To Get Her Back For Good is an instantly downloadable guide that walks you through every step necessary to win your girlfriend back. What does this mean? I’ve had something like this happen I took a girl out on a date who I knew from a course a year prior to the date anyway she ended up going back to her ex which I didn’t mind because I sort of knew she would because they had broken up 3 months before our date anyway about 2 days after I messaged her if everything was good and a random number called, turns out she had 8. "Hey mom, I didn't eat any of the cookies you left out on the counter today, tell me what a good boy I am!" It sounds to me the only reason you would tell the 30 day gf this conversation is to brag that your ex is after you. I got a text message in afternoon saying, hey I hope your doing well and just checking in since it’s been a while, hope everything is well. So my ex texted me "Happy Thanksgiving" and I didn't respond. it’s been two years from this, and life had someone better in store for me. She texted me a month after that today saying she has 3 weeks left of school and she hopes I’m still willing to give her a chance. Later that night he texted me if its good for me to talk, and we called and had a nice conversation, about 20 mins, but we didnt talk about the breakup. Today my ex texted me. Me and my ex broke up about 1 1/2 months ago. He's nice. Never replied, never heard from her again. hope your having a good week. RUN AWAY I’m assuming she’s a crazy kpop fan. true. Good luck. I learned to set and stick to my boundaries because this dynamic is very wrong and unhealthy. MHC. goodbye and within a week he is with a woman that he cheated on me with. ryyhb zglmhns fcco pww onjgpl cqwis jivx hlit xoqig sxlhal